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Saturday, February 5, 2011


A.


A, I don't know you are or why you're tagging my blog, but here's a post dedicated specially to you. Boy, must feel honoured huh? ;)
There may be truth in what you're saying about me. I mean, we all know I'm not blessed with the socially-defined 'best' features and I'm pretty much hopeless when it comes to guys, they are all proven and established facts. The whole 'smart' , on the other hand, is really subjective. And no, I am not some egotistic brainiac devoted to discriminating anything non-academic. I'm just a girl who knows/dares to form her own opinions on matters.

As for the accusation of me being a certain five-lettered word attracted to fire hydrants (C'mon, we all know what that stands for!), I simply must disagree! To prove my point, let's use Wiki (yay!):

The word ***** is especially used as a denigrating term applied to a woman. It often refers to someone (traditionally female) who is belligerent, unreasonable, rudely intrusive or aggressive. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened.

Let me remind you that these traits characterise the very person. As far as I know myself, I'm not one. I am strongly against gossiping/lying/betraying/backstabbing, to the point that it makes people doubt my gender (YES, I'm a girl, with fully-functional X chromosomes and all).
Maybe in the feminist context, if A's a guy, I may have threatened him? Not possible, unless you're one of the losers (who are actually buddies/dudes of mine!) of an arm-wrestling match with me, but I doubt that would stir up such harsh sentiments, resulting in cyber-insulting. And anyway, guys are usually too cool and composed for such irrational behaviour (Bro Code, remember?) and I'm quite certain all the guys I'm friends with like me (not in thaaaat way though! D:)


Maybe A's even right about people hating me (although, 'hate' is a pretty strong word). I know too many of them to know it's because of perceived assumptions about me (I was told I had a "naturally-haughty" look) and not because of personal grudges against me. I won't say I'm amazingly perfect as a friend, because I know I've flawed in some friendships, one very recently actually. However, in my defence, I can certainly assure you that I put in effort into all my friendships. I only want the best for people, I look out for my best friends/friends/ex-friends/almost-friends/strangers. You name it. I have a clean heart, and I really have nothing to hide because I can justify all my actions with good and only good.

I don't know what I may have done to get such a negative response from you, but please, tell me? E-mail me, since I've deactivated my FB account (for other reasons I would not like to blog about), or text me if you have my number. Or do something! I'd want to make it up to you if I've hurt you ever. I may not be the horrible person you think I am, so please don't judge me? :(

So, with that, I shall extend the hand of friendship to A, whoever you are, and it's his/her choice to hold my hand (I'll let you know, not many people have held my hands! >:D). This ends the post specially dedicated to A, a possible new friend? :)


With Love,

Me, me, me, me.



PARVEEN :)
14 September '93.
Singapore.

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Hey. :)
Masterdebater. (Read it wrong at first?)
Queen of nostalgia. I'm gay like that. :)
Pretty tough to crack, I'd like to think.
Socially awkward at times.
I love sarcasm, humour and optimism... Or do I?
Life's too short to get upset all the time.
Grammar Nazi, guilty as charged.

Pretty well-developed moral compass. Try me.
I admire sarcasm, intellect and brains, but I get awfully lame at times.
Still waiting for romeo.
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